tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post2243249071564741799..comments2023-10-01T07:50:30.374-05:00Comments on It only hurts when I breathe!: Messed upHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04602706939281669017noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-65717210840720785282009-06-16T12:54:22.231-05:002009-06-16T12:54:22.231-05:00You will never be the same again. It will be 3 yea...You will never be the same again. It will be 3 years in October and I am still "Messed" up really bad. I am so sorry for your loss. They say it all gets easier With time but really dose it ever?? I don't know yet. <br />Your right people don't get it they wont unless they have been through it. <br />Its hard real hard but you are strong and will find your new normal. <br />What really helps me is doing things for other babyloss moms. <br />When I first lost my Daughter I started to make custom pictures for other mothers.I don't do it as much any more because my life is so stressful right now but I think because I am not a am slipping back into the hole again. <br />Find something your good at and share it! It will help.<br />Know there are a lot of us in this same basket with you.You are not alone we are here for you.mellosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08883902615360097948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-39979634030473236882009-06-15T23:03:35.584-05:002009-06-15T23:03:35.584-05:00I'm not feeling anything... What does that me...I'm not feeling anything... What does that mean?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-19745291721839432402009-06-14T15:37:17.836-05:002009-06-14T15:37:17.836-05:00I think it's only natural for us to feel "...I think it's only natural for us to feel "messed up". We certainly are different. How can we not be... we have held an Angel... what a life altering experience.<br /><br />Thinking of you.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05569964047627902570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-2424295234337557212009-06-14T14:05:01.000-05:002009-06-14T14:05:01.000-05:00We're here for you....We're here for you....Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02100182709422069894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-72341962659573744242009-06-14T11:19:02.451-05:002009-06-14T11:19:02.451-05:00I think, 18 months later, I have realized that tho...I think, 18 months later, I have realized that those who have had losses like ours, not necessarily a baby, but someone close, that hurt, they can understand. It's not exactly the same, but they can understand deep sorrow. <br /><br />But no, one person's sorrow, even with the same type of loss, is always different from others. <br /><br />You aren't messed up. Messed up implies that you need fixing. You are grieving. The only fix for this is time and tears. <br /><br />Abiding.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-22420860405161147422009-06-14T10:29:03.278-05:002009-06-14T10:29:03.278-05:00I know, our lives are just not the same anymore. H...I know, our lives are just not the same anymore. How can we not be messed up?<br /><br />((HUGS))Terhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08427090425449970893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-58808920070900010452009-06-14T08:59:07.220-05:002009-06-14T08:59:07.220-05:00We will never comprehend the impact that this has ...We will never comprehend the impact that this has made on us. I'm sure in the future something will come up, i.e. heatlh, and it will all be related to the loss of Lukas. Among all the other new twiches and personality that will come from it. I hope that today is a "good" one for you. ((HUGS))Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071927168876473000noreply@blogger.com