tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post3319763241679690167..comments2023-10-01T07:50:30.374-05:00Comments on It only hurts when I breathe!: These dreary days.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04602706939281669017noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-46735878062351618392010-02-11T02:15:26.446-06:002010-02-11T02:15:26.446-06:00When my friend had her loss, I just wanted to run ...When my friend had her loss, I just wanted to run and hug her and protect her too. We can't help it. It is our motherly instinct to protect especially a friend going thru this. I felt like I was doing too much. I think I was pushing my grief on her so I pulled it back. Maybe ask her or tell her what you are feeling and maybe you will find out that you are doing enough.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071927168876473000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4488516630362661582.post-51787898535374881012010-02-10T19:19:57.435-06:002010-02-10T19:19:57.435-06:00Wow. I could have written that post. I have a ne...Wow. I could have written that post. I have a new-ish friend who recently lost a little girl due to placenta issues. I think I'm helping her through it but I question myself alot. Am I stalking her? Am I doing enough? Am I pushing her? I literally could have written your words. I know how alone I felt after losing my son...16 years ago, people didn't talk about loss like we do so openly now. Maybe that is why I still grieve as much as I do? No, I doubt it. I think I just miss my son every day that I open my eyes. <br />Anyway, sorry, didn't mean to overload your comment section. Just wanted to say that I, too, have a friend that I'd like to shield from all of the heartache. Much the same as, even though you and I don't know each other, I'd like to shield you. This is a pain that I hate knowing others endure.<br />(((hugs))))<br />TracieTraciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02144443270788551021noreply@blogger.com