It must be very difficult to be a man in grief,
Since "men don't cry" and "men are strong" no tears can bring relief.
It must be very difficult to stand up to the test
And field calls and visitors so she can get some rest.
They always ask if she's all right And what she's going through,
But seldom take his hand and ask, "My friend, but how are you?"
He hears her crying in the night And thinks his heart will break.
He dries her tears and comforts her, But "stays strong" for her sake.
It must be very difficult To start each day anew
And try to be so very brave-- He lost his baby too.
~Eileen Knight Hagemeister~
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I swear this poem is speaking about my husband. Through our loss, he was so strong. In my angry sort of way, I felt that he wasn't grieving enough. But in my heart, I knew that he was grieving in his own way. He had to be strong for the sake of me and our daughter.
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